The way we understand and live our intimacy is a process of self-discovery, entirely personal and individual. It looks different for everyone, depending on where we come from, our culture, our society, and our family. We’re here to reimagine the ways we exist, and for that, we can’t ignore that who we think we are has been shaped by our roots, roots filled with taboos, omissions, and restrictions. We must take that inheritance as a starting point from which we can choose, not as a cycle of patterns we are condemned to repeat. Our mission is to undress with ourselves, to understand the nature of our sexual desire as a source of creation, empowerment, and love.

For centuries, female pleasure has transformed according to the beliefs of the cultures that have ruled this world. Yet one constant has remained: the denial and silencing of that pleasure. We have been taught that sex is a sin, that it is forbidden, that feeling desire and pleasure is something shameful. From an early age, we are taught to feel modesty toward our own bodies, to ignore them, to avoid naming them, to call them by everything except their real names. Unlike men, women have most of our sexual organs within, which makes our desire even more invisible and, in turn, repressed by the education we receive.

These beliefs are so hypocritical that they hardly deserve to be repeated. What matters is understanding that they were created to mutilate our right to enjoy our own bodies, a right that, ironically, has been restricted only for women.
Why is it considered normal for boys to masturbate, but shameful for girls?
Why is a man celebrated for having many partners while a woman is condemned for doing the same?
We live in a double-standard society that teaches us to restrict ourselves out of fear of judgment. It is the same society that has taken control of our bodies, deciding how they should look, when we should give birth, and how we should experience pleasure.

One of the main reasons so many women today don’t truly know their intimate parts, why they don’t touch, explore, or even look, is because they were taught it was dirty. It’s the message passed down from great-grandmother to grandmother, from mother to daughter, generation after generation.
It’s also important to understand that we were never taught to touch ourselves, only to be touched. To let go, to give, to surrender our pleasure, and it should never be that way. These are learned customs that continue to reproduce without question, but it’s time to deconstruct everything we’ve been given and rebuild a new understanding of pleasure.
To talk about pleasure, we must first get to know our bodies. We need to understand which organs we have and how they connect to one another to truly understand their function. As we grow and come to know ourselves, we realize that we are the ones responsible for managing our own pleasure. We don’t need anyone else to feel or enjoy, because only we know what we like.

That’s why it’s essential to create moments with ourselves, to explore, to touch, to discover what truly brings us joy.
As human beings, our bodies are filled with nerve endings. The skin is the largest sexual organ we have, which means pleasure should include everything — every inch of our eight meters of skin — because we can feel not only in our erogenous zones, but everywhere.

It’s true that female masturbation is a form of self-eroticism centered on the clitoris, but that’s only one part of pleasure. You could say it’s just the doorbell of the house.
To breathe, to be fully present, and to intentionally enjoy these encounters with ourselves, that is what connects us deeply to who we are and expands the pleasure we give ourselves.

Sexual energy is creation and expansion. It nourishes and strengthens us from within.
Pleasure is a gift, and it is infinitely diverse.
Masturbation is a meditation of self-love, a conversation with yourself. It’s about listening, feeling, and loving yourself. It’s about reconnecting with your body and your eroticism, something spontaneous and natural.
So the next time you touch yourself, do it with love, with joy. Give yourself completely to you.
Don’t forget to explore your entire body. The purpose of sex and masturbation isn’t the orgasm, it’s the enjoyment of the physical body you inhabit. ♡